The Blessing of Endurance

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Isn't it interesting that we tend to count our blessings most when "bad" things happen?

It is after a major accident that we are glad to be alive, or post loss that we are grateful for those who truly love us. It seems that we need disruptions to remind us that life isn't actually in our control and that there is something more important "out there".

Yet the faster we get over things, the sooner we forget these pseudo-lessons. Reminders seem fleeting and unable to impact us in a way that changes something in our hearts.

This, the Bible suggests, is the blessing of endurance. Troubles and suffering that endure teach us, rather than remind us, to rely on our Lord and to look on our lives in light of Him. We are to glory in our sufferings, God says in Romans 5:

" And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us."

If God chooses to, He can heal the sick, prevent accidents, and delay the time of death. There are certainly times that He has. We often find that this is what we pray for. Or, if not such extreme miracles, we pray that recovery is speedy or that joy come quickly. Why do we fear suffering, tribulation, and uncomfortable emotions? Surely no one needs to desire or wish for trouble, but when it comes, as it did for Jesus, we are to trust in God's will. And He produces much in our hearts in our times of need.

Consider what Psalm 105:19 says about God's work in the suffering of Joseph (who was sold into slavery and thrown into jail for no sin of his own!):

"Until the time came to fulfill his dreams, the LORD tested Joseph's character."

In Psalm 73, we are given an example of one who begins to slip from righteousness because He focuses on how wicked people seem to have no trouble at all. The writer begins to look around and grow envious of how happy others earthly lives. Meanwhile, his own Godly life is one of affliction. He comes to this conclusion in verses 20-28:

"They are like a dream when one awakes;

when you arise, Lord,

you will despise them as fantasies.

When my heart was grieved

and my spirit embittered,

I was senseless and ignorant;

I was a brute beast before you.

Yet I am always with you;

you hold me by my right hand.

You guide me with your counsel,

and afterward you will take me into glory.

Whom have I in heaven but you?

And earth has nothing I desire besides you.

My flesh and my heart may fail,

but God is the strength of my heart

and my portion forever.

Those who are far from you will perish;

you destroy all who are unfaithful to you.

But as for me, it is good to be near God.

I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge;

I will tell of all your deeds."

Sometimes life is a lot to endure when we look around and see how other's lives seem to go. Particularly when we suffer. Yet our endurance, when rooted in the Lord, can be a blessing.

The "end goal" of our lives as Christians is that we are near to our God. Joy is not the goal. Prosperity is not the goal. These might be a means to our end goal, but we must realize that suffering can also be a means.

It is good for us to be near our God. He is our desire and our glory. If it is in suffering that we spend our days seeking Him, learning from Him, and relying on Him, than we can count our having to endure as a blessing.

In light of our Savior, our hope is secure. He is faithful. His love is unfailing. Time and time again, He has proved Himself merciful. Our suffering does not change the Lord, but the Lord can certainly draw our hearts, shaping them as His, through our suffering.

Suffering is suffering. Having to persevere is what it is. We don't have to feign joy and peace, or pronounce platitudes to get by effectively. Our hope is in the Lord. His Spirit is poured into us...isn't that enough? Isn't His provision sufficient so that we are not "put to shame," but are all the more able to glory in Him (Romans 5:5)?

Our Mistaken Faith: A Good Friday Reflection

In the last couple of years, I’ve seen a Good Friday trend that troubles me. It tends to come with a reading of the crucifixion of Christ, dimmed lights, and the wailing of people moved by their sin.

Read that line again. People moved by their sin. I say that knowing that in my own heart at such services, there is a sinful temptation to take on everything I’ve ever done “wrong” and feel guilty that it’s because of me that Jesus died. I find no Biblical basis for mourning over our sins once Christ has redeemed us, or for taking back our sins and guilt from the foot of the cross so that we can have a spiritual experience all over again. Surely sin is to be avoided, hated, and condemned.

Let me be clear: there is a space for mourning, grieving, and sorrow. In this world we will have trouble, and we will suffer, the Bible tells us so. But sin is not worth wailing over or mourning for because Jesus has conquered it. He defeats us, His Spirit indwells us, so onward and forward we look to our Lord and waste no time on our selfish obsession with what we have and haven’t done.

In faith we ask forgiveness and repent. Focusing on our depravity is hardly connected to what our faith is founded on: God revealed in His son, Jesus Christ, who is with us. Our redeemer lives!

What a mistake we make when we look more to our faith –or lack thereof- than to His faithfulness.

All sorts of folly devolves from this perspective, causing our feet to slip on His path of righteousness. For example,

1). We treat sin as if it is merely making mistakes….

 Turning God into a harsh, petty, ungracious entity.

2). We border on thinking that God was mistaken to send Jesus to die…

                                                Forcing ourselves to create false theories for the atonement.

3). We misplace all emphasis on the cross…

                                                Neglecting the necessity of the resurrection.

4). We use our guilt as a tool for redemption…

                                                Backwardly believing that we are now more worthy of salvation.

5). We make Jesus a means to our ends…

                                                Setting ourselves on His throne, but in His name.

“For the wages of sin is death”, says Paul in Romans 6:23.

In John 15:22 we read that we “now have no excuse for our sin”.

Further, we are made to understand that “while we were still sinners, 

Christ died for us”  -Romans 5:8.

This was because “He loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice 

for our sins” -1 John 4:10.

We must make no mistake about who God is when we remember His sacrifice!

Our God is faithful and has never failed those who seek His face. Even those who seek His face are unworthy. All have fallen short of His glory! Yet He has never left us or forsaken us. In all things, He has remained. From the beginning of time, He has promised to redeem us solely because He is good. His mercy has kept us from getting what we deserve –hell. And His grace has freely established us in the place of His favor, though we don’t deserve it –transformed by Jesus Christ.

Our God is just. He doesn’t change His mind about what we deserve or give anyone a free pass, but rather sent His son to be the ultimate sacrifice, once and for all, that we could be washed in His blood and have new life. Someone had to appease the wrath of the God who is righteous. That God chose to provide for us this lamb, at great cost, is evidence of His unimaginably loving, compassionate character.

Our God is worthy of praise. As we look at the cross and marvel at what He did for us, let us worship Him. Sin can be confronted. It ought to be. The reality of the fallen nature of this world and humanity are an important aspect of recognizing the opposing nature of Christ, in all His glory. 

Faithful Expectations

We believe in a God who can do anything. Our Creator brought life out of dust. Jesus Christ healed the blind, cured the sick, cast out demons, and raised the dead. The miracles continue today, though more commonly in small signs and wonders. All things are possible in the Lord. 

So God can do anything. And we ask Him to. When loved ones are sick, we pray that He heals them. When situations are dire, we pray that He come through and provide. And when we ask Him faithfully, He hears and He answers (Matthew 21, 1 John 5). 

Yet how many are still sick? How many are still lost? 

In our circumstances of suffering, we look to ourselves, our loved ones, and our prayers for answers. We ask what it is that are we doing that isn't satisfactory to God, since He continues to not do the impossible? This is natural, even righteous, to do. Some of the common questions we ask when we need answers are taken from these lines of thought:

1. James 4:3 tells us that "When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures."

Alright. We check our hearts. This time, our motives are not selfish and full of folly.

2. The Old Testament is loaded with examples of people whom God punished for their sin. He spared them when they repented and sought Him.

Okay. We repent earnestly and call on His name. Still nothing in this circumstance.

3. James 1:6 states that "When you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind."

So we're just not believing well enough. So we do. Or we try to. And...still nothing.

There are times when it seems we've tried everything. The equation isn't adding up. So, the platitudes will have to suffice. God's answers aren't always what we want them to be. His plans are better than ours. Maybe He knows something about this that we don't. 

Relief slowly fills our cups. We've examined our hearts and found that it isn't because of us that He isn't performing signs. We can now rest in the idea that God is doing something -it's all just invisible and too grand for our comprehension.

But is that enough? Is it right to lower our expectations of God when He doesn't meet our requirements? 

When we lower our Spiritual expectations, we see the Lord backwards. 

Suddenly faith, to us, is a few cliches that He is in control. Our feelings and emotions have to be in line with the happy lines -we have to have put on joy anyway. Rather than be disappointed and wrestle with the character of the Almighty, we take a step away from Him, bow down, and refuse to look in His face. We'd rather just say it's okay and pretend that it is. 

When we lower our expectations of God, we raise the expectations we have of ourselves.

Suddenly we rely on worldly wisdom to empower us to be good people despite our challenges. We become our own counselors, our own doctors, our own friends. And how faithful we seem! As long as we don't make a lot of fuss and say the right things, we're spiritual.

But God is not less faithful when things we don't like occur. And we are not more faithful simply because we feel that God is less faithful but we're okay with it. 

Our expectations of the Lord must be established according to who God says He is, rather than what we wish were true.

Our Lord is the great physician. He is the creator. God is a provider. In all things, the Lord is faithful and good. His love endures forever. The Lord decides to give and to take away. He is sovereign above all things. Christ never leaves us or forsakes us.  -These are Bible verses. This is the truth. 

And so is this:

Job suffered tremendous loss, and God permitted it. He did nothing to deserve punishment, He believed wholeheartedly that God could do anything that He wanted to. His misery existed because the Evil ruler of this world challenged God concerning Job's heart.

Hagar was sent by God, pregnant and mistreated, back to a miserable situation. It was many years later, as a single mother cast into the wilderness, that God gave her hope and revealed His provision. The hope had nothing to do with improving her personal circumstances -God had plans for her son.

Elijah lived on food delivered by birds. He lived in a cave. This man of God was persecuted for being righteous. God didn't just have him camp out for one night while he "solved" the situation with Elijah's enemies. The man lived in the wilderness for a good long while. The Lord later used Elijah to reveal Himself to those worshiping false Gods. 

Paul had a thorn in his flesh. It truly weakened and bothered him. The Lord easily could have removed it. But He didn't. And the Spirit didn't tell Paul that He had to suffer to understand others better, or to stay humble, or as punishment, or anything at all having to do with Paul and His choices. 

Rather, God said: "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness." 
-2 Corinthians 12:9

Why do we expect any less of God than absolute sufficiency? 

There will be trouble in this world, Christ never hid that. We will have emotions, strong ones, and that isn't wrong (see Christ's anger, sorrow, etc). 

Like Eli and like Joab when He was righteous, we must rely on the truth that:

"The Lord will do what is good in his sight." -1 Samuel 3:18, 1 Chronicles 19:13

Like David, we must recognize our options and choose based off of right expectations:

"Let me fall into the hands of the Lord, for his mercy is very great; but do not let me fall into human hands." -1 Chronicles 21:13

Our Lord is sufficient, exceeding our every expectation. When loved ones suffer for a long time, when they die, when we feel lost and worthless, He is sufficient. His grace is enough for us. 

We don't need to come up with excuses for God. We don't need to raise the bar in our hearts for how we ought to cope. 

If we are faithless (and at times we will be or we feel as if we are) then He is faithful because He cannot deny who He is (2 Timothy 2:13). 

What a gracious God He is, that when we weep, He will weep with us. That's so much more a "solution" than giving us what we want -it is giving us what we need.  Expect that from God. 

Expect that as we rely on Him, He will be enough.